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Catty Mean Girls

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?time stamps ?☺ let's deprogram our internalized misogyny ☺
00:14 lizzie mcguire's first episode EVER and how it made me sad AF lol
1:40 which then led to write this Instagram post on #conscioussisterhood (which is the inspiration behind this video)
2:35 what is ‘catty?’ + some examples
3:22 how cattiness has been enforced, perpetuated
4:43 famous meaaaan girl characters
5:00 REAL mean girl celebrities
5:23 taylor swift and dissecting her old work/lyrics, you belong with me, bad blood, better than revenge

'She's not a saint and she's not what you think
She's an actress, whoa
She's better known for the things that she does
On the mattress, whoa'

8:35 paramore & misery business & slutshaming

'Once a wh*re, you're nothing more, I'm sorry that'll never change'

9:59 who is to blame? who/what is the root cause?
10:30 tavi gevinson’s critical graphic on how internalized misogyny gets reinforced
12:36 living in an idealized world where women are equal, you say????
15:09 it’s not our fault, bro
16:03 ‘cattiness’ is not inherently female, it’s an adaptive, natural response to oppression
16:34 ‘catty mean girl’ compared to ‘angry black girl’ narrative
17:09 ‘cattiness’ displacement in the gay men community and why
18:03 my critique on sheryl sandberg’s article “myth of the catty women”
18:36 deep trauma of being a racial minority and a women, ‘emotional genetics’
19:14 mother trauma (and father trauma)
19:44 getting bullied myself in high school by other girls
20:30 the TRUE reversal/opposition to cattiness is neutrality, disengagement
21:31 i don’t believe in ‘toxic’ people
22:00 how to dismantle/combat cattiness
22:38 unkindness does not elicit more unkindness
23:13 women are people! and people are complex! and in their wounding, they hurt others!

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My #conscioussisterhood IG post
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Sheryl Sandberg on the Myth of the Catty Woma
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/23/opinion/sunday/sheryl-sandberg-on-the-myth-of-the-catty-woman.html

Tiffany Ferg’s “I’m Not Like Other Girls”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nL-kgbbcBA

Taylor Swift's Miss Americana

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